***I know, I’m a little late to the party…but wishing everybody a beautiful and peaceful holiday season***
It is that time of the year, when many people are focused on spending some quality time with family and loved ones. Some of us, though, are painfully reminded that some of our relationships with others have been strained or are just too unhealthy to be continued. If you are, like me, spending this time alone, please know that you’re not the only one and that there is no shame in it.
This is not the first holiday season, I spent on my own and I have to say, that it is not only getting easier but actually really enjoyable – it is quality time with myself…and I love it!
I was expecting to feel lonely and maybe even fall into depression, not being in a holiday spirit at all. That’s what had happened in past years. But not this time: There were heartfelt Christmas cards from co-workers, I found out that some friends were celebrating all by themselves as well and that some people were still finding time to chat with me, while being ‘busy’ with their personal relationships.
I was still on my own, but I connected with people and it felt good and festive after all!
So, even if you feel alone, you’re not… you are in my heart and I know there are many of us all around the globe. If this is your first time, it won’t be easy. But I promise you, that it is nothing to be afraid of. There will always be people in a similar situation and you will get a chance to connect.
Try to enjoy this quality time with yourself! You might be surprised how great that can feel.
Lots of love,
Melli
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